Major Media Outlets Pick Up Adventist LGBT Stories

Stories of LGBT+ Adventists and their families have caught the attention of major news organizations, pointing both to the power of the stories and their uniqueness as accounts from within the faith community. Two stories in particular—one about an Adventist pastor who came out as bisexual and another about the Adventist parents of a transgender daughter—have received national media coverage.

Last month, Alicia Johnston announced to her congregation, the Foothills Community Church in Chandler, Arizona, and to her employer, the Arizona Conference of Seventh-day Adventists, that she was resigning from her full-time pastoral role over her “complete disagreement with the Adventist Church on its teachings on LGBT people.” Johnston revealed that she identifies as bisexual, and described the story leading to her resignation in a 27-minute video message.

Johnston’s video went viral on social media, and after coverage in Spectrum, the story was picked up by Religion News Service, NBC News and other major outlets.

Johnston said the experience of sharing her story with such a wide audience has been ultimately a positive one. "I have never been as honest about myself and spoken with as much frankness about my experience with God than I did in that video, and to have it resonate so deeply with so many people is truly affirming," she said. However, Johnston sought to deflect the spotlight. "It's not about me and my sexuality at all," she said. "It's about discussions that desperately needed to happen and queer people in our communities that need to be seen and heard."

Alicia Johnston - Screen capture from her coming out video on her website, aliciajohnston.site.

She said that any number of closeted Adventist pastors could have made a similar video and said she was "overwhelmed with the honor and responsibility that it was me." Noting that she is one of many people in the Adventist Church to have come out, she said, "God used my coming out to bring hope and courage to a lot of people."

In the month that has followed her coming out, Johnston has taken time for self care—a trip to the ocean and the opportunity to "meet and reconnect with some incredible people in the Adventist queer community," she said. She has focused on writing and public speaking engagements, but without anxiety about what might come next professionally, she said.

NBC News also picked up the story of Teagan Widmer, a transgender software engineer from the Bay Area, and her parents, Kris and Debbie Widmer, after their story was featured in the “Outspoken” video series. Kris Widmer has served as a Seventh-day Adventist pastor for more than three decades. In the video, Debbie and Kris describe the struggle they experienced coming to terms with the changes their family experienced and the paradoxical way their faith community left them feeling isolated after Teagan came out.

Teen Vogue, Refinery29, and LGBTQ Nation were among the outlets that covered the Widmer’s “Outspoken” story. That the stories of Alicia Johnston and the Widmer family hit national media was no accident. Eliel Cruz, an LGBT activist, faith organizer and Andrews University alum, used extensive connections with religion reporters and LGBTQ reporters to help the stories spread.

“Realistically, mainstream media doesn't care about Adventist stories. They don't pay attention to it,” Cruz said. He attributed the oversight to Adventism’s insularity and its relative foreignness to most North American media. However, Cruz noted that journalists have picked up stories he pitched them both because they are “really interesting stories” and because he can contextualize Adventist stories in ways reporters unfamiliar with Adventism might not be able to.

The upshot has been many eyes on the two stories in a short time, something that left the Widmers taken aback.

“Debbie and I are amazed at the response to the video—41K views in three weeks,” Kris Widmer said. “We realize it is a unique perspective in Christianity to hear the struggle from parents, especially those who work for the church, to share their journey,” he said. Such openness about LGBT+ experiences is indeed rare for people of faith in general, let alone the Seventh-day Adventist community.

However, the media attention also had some negative repercussions for the Widmers. Kris noted that the “Outspoken” video went live the day before he preached his final sermon at the Antioch Seventh-day Adventist Church in Antioch, California, prompting at least one attack website to opine that he was resigning over a conflict with the Adventist Church. “That is not true,” Kris said. He stated that he resigned from the Adventist pastorate to pursue chaplaincy work with Adventist Health.

“I have not been defrocked as an ordained minister. I go forth with [the church’s] continued blessing and approval and ordination...to be present with the sick and the dying as a chaplain, rather than administrate and preach and try to grow a local congregation as a pastor.”

Kris, Teagan and Debbie Widmer. Photo by Stephen Eyer / Watchfire Films.

Debbie Widmer lamented the online sharing of a condemnatory video by people who never bothered to get in touch, “even people we know,” she said. “None of them have ever gotten in touch with us to hear our story or our reasons or what we meant by what we said.”

She added that the coverage was initially overwhelming. “It felt a little bit like a pressure cooker, since the media outlets need their story ‘now’,” she said. “We didn't have a lot of time to think through our responses like we might have wanted. It's been a bit of a roller coaster.”

Still, Debbie expressed optimism about the film’s potential. “We hope that many lives will be impacted by our story and relationships will be healed.”

Kris added, “We are greatly encouraged by the notes, emails and messages that have said, ‘Your video was amazing, it prompted me to have a conversation with a mother, a father or other family member. I came out to my parents...and then I showed them your video. And it has been OK after that.’”

“Since our video has helped more than one LGBT person in this way, we know it has truly been worth it,” he said.

For Daneen Akers and Stephen Eyer of Watchfire Films, the producers of the “Outspoken” video series who also helped film and produce Alicia Johnston's video message, the media response has been important for its potential to effect change. In a newsletter to supporters, they wrote,

Of course it's always nice to have great media coverage, but that's not why we are so thrilled with all of these articles. What this coverage means is that the likelihood of a LGBT young person (or their parents) coming across these films is higher, and seeing a story like these when you are struggling is a huge help in realizing you are not alone. One of the trans advocates who wrote said directly, ‘This film will save lives.’

That is the power of honest, courageous storytelling.

Title Image: Screen Capture from "Widmers - Outspoken"

Jared Wright is Southern California Correspondent for Spectrummagazine.org.

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I’m glad the Widmers participated in the outspoken series. I’ve known them for years. Their kids went to school with mine in Redding. It really helped to put a face on the subject of transgenderism and make me more understanding. That it has received widespread media coverage is great, except for those naysayers who are so quick to pass judgement and condemn when they have no idea what your family has been through. Those self proclaimed keepers of the flame would sooner burn lgbt’s and their allies at the stake than lend one peep of compassion. Commendations for your courage and congradulations on your next step in your career as a chaplin for the sick and dieing and bereaved relatives they leave behind when they pass away. I’ll never forget how Kris ministered to my mother-in-law when she was afraid of dieing. It made her last couple of months more at peace. God bless you Kris, Debbie and Teagen. May the story you have shared go far and wide to help others know and model the unconditional love of our Savior.

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None are my compassionate than Christ . We are called to follow His example to love everyone . How are we as a church going to handle transgender / same sex marriage issues ? While the stories of these two persons are being heard around the nation , is it their feeling that the church should allow SSM ? The statement put out by the GC sets the boundaries as the church sees it. Is it a sin for SS persons to marry ? Does the church have a right to say marriage is only between one man and one woman ? or should the doors of the church by open to allow and accept everyone ?

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This article has nothing to do with same-sex marriage, Rodney! Did you misunderstand?

Did it say anything about the Widmer’s daughter getting married? No!

Did it say who she would marry if she chose to? No!

This article was not about same-sex marriage.

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Firstly Stephen Eyer and Daneen Akers, our SPLENDID Adventist film makers are to be congratulated when their SUPERB journalism is applauded and recognized by major media!

These two fantastic film makers have been black listed from teaching on our Adventist campuses merely because they have legitimately and compassionately reported on the poignant and pitiful plight of our Adventist
LGBT offspring.

What a loss for Adventist education.

Now that major media are recognizing the terrific talent of these two, let us hope some Adventist educational institution will reward them with professorships!

My only response to Rodney Smith is that when his favorite daughter/son,
grandchild or niece/nephew comes out as gay/lesbian just maybe he will not want to condemn them to a lifetime of loneliness, companionlessness and celibacy.

With a demographic of one in twenty five being LGBT, EVERY extended family has at least one such member, but not all are willing to "out themselves " in a vicious climate of rejection and hatefulness!

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This is an amazing article. What a great way to spread the 3 angels messages. Thousands will now come out of Babylon and join God’s remnant! How exciting!

Putting aside all of the spiritual issues it raises, how does a group of individuals (LGBT) that best estimates number at 3.5-4% of the US population get this much media time? There are almost as many Amish in the country and they don’t get much, if any, airtime. Never have so few had so much influence over so many.

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I thank the Widmer family and Alicia Johnston for telling their stories and being open with their struggles of how to live in this world in which we find ourselves. The answers are rarely as simple as the bedtime stories tried to lead us to believe. In this daily life, the challenge to accept ourselves as children of God, and to offer that same acceptance to others, is the real work, and power, of the gospel.

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Adventists are now showing rermarkable sympathy, and/or empathy, with those of our church who are facing challenges in aspiring to the majority way of the nuclear family. Thier burgeoning empathy toward those LGBT who still want to remain SDA membership is remarkably Christlike , in my opinion. I cannot imagine Jesus rejecting any TLG as it were(, in my order of preference). I can see him perhaps raising a question about B, since that can be construed as libertinism in my opinion,as a semi-ignorant earthling, unused to cosmic realities and Preactice(as opposed to scribal rantings of prohibition in sacred texts) Earth is not ready for widespread sexual freedom at this time. But even so, some do have a strong personal attraction for both aspects of the B conglomerate ,(even if not mediated hormonally) in which case I.am not competent at this point to have an informed opinion without further study. However, I am of the opinion that ALL LGBT will be welcome in heaven , whereb there is no marriage as such , and further I have seen reports in a book (Intelligent Design by Claude Vorhilion)of what he saw when he was taken on a trip (One earth day long) to “heaven” by Yahweh, his father, in about 1975 . If I remember right. In extending the hand of fellowship to these dear ones, Adventists are definitely on the right track, I believe.