GAYS DO NOT HAVE TO DO AS THEIR PROCLIVITIES DICTATE.
Allen are you married and sexually active ?
If so, why are you not following Apostle Paul’s advice that remaining single and CELIBATE is the preferred option ?
While gays “ proclivity “ ( endowed by the hormones God provided for them ),
is to find a mate with whom to be sexual,
they like most romantic couples,
put a higher value on the love, validation, affirmation, esteem, support, conviviality, companionship that coupling affords.
Your denying gays / lesbians their “ proclivity “ condemns them to a lifetime of abject loneliness.
Not to mention, possible economic deprivation and homelessness- —- in these harsh economic times with massive unemployment, it is often the employed partner who sustains the jobless one.
In my 84 years, I have watched with amazement and amusement as churchmen ( pastors, administrators, parochial teachers ) when widowed while in their “ viagra “ years, are almost always remarried within a year of losing their wives.
Clearly, not for the sex, but because of their overwhelming LONELINESS
Yet, these same hypocrites, like you, were the first to deny and condemn companionship, love and happiness to gays / lesbians who had zero choice in their sexual orientation.
You ask for my personal information.
My wife and I, ( both anesthesiologists ) were happily married and I would never have left her. However when she tragically died in 1989 at the age of 53, I realized that I could not be sexual with another woman, so unlike the churchmen alluded to above, I remained single and lonely for the next twelve years.
Then I found an incredible man ( through a gay matchmaker — his fee was $2,000– I have proclaimed repeatedly that I would have paid $200,000 for this mate ).
He is a dentist, a published poet, a consummate artist— water colors, oils, sketches.
Between us, we own seven homes to which we travel — we are itinerant in our retirement. We have happily been together for twenty years.
Our six adult offspring have been unbelievably supportive of our relationship — my four kids, and his two, are so happy that we are not alone and miserable ! I
I have one set of grandchildren in London England and the other set in Maui Hawaii —- twelve time zones apart ! He has three grandchildren living in Phoenix, Arizona.
Regrettably, my partner now has advancing Alzheimer’s and I am happily his caregiver, now in my Maui home.
Now that I have been so transparent, here is a PERSONAL question for you:
At what age did you make the deliberate, definitive choice between being heterosexual and homosexual??
Or were you, fortunate for you, born straight ?.